What happens in gay fisting
Depending on your point of view, fisting might be a sex act that feels extreme, kinky, or limited to the realm of pornography; it might be something that you do on a weekly basis. It might also feel like scissoring: a sex act you’ve heard about, but weren’t confident could be a feasible part of anyone’s day-to-day sex life.
If any of this ambiguity resonates with you, you’re not alone; for some, there’s been confusion over whether fisting in porn is prohibited in porn by obscenity laws, and it’s certainly not something regularly covered in American sexual training. But there’s no question that it’s also an extremely common and enjoyable practice for a lot of folks, often rooted in queer culture but enjoyed by people of various genders and sexual orientations. If it’s something you’ve always had questions about, or want to make sure you’re adequately informed about before trying at home, here’s what I think is most important to know to get started with fisting.
What is fisting?
Put very simply, fisting is the operate of inserting your entire hand and sometimes forearm inside somebody, either in the vagina or rectum. Despite the name, it’s easier to imagine this if you remember th
7 Lessons from Fisting Club
6. The digestive system can't be ignored
Anyone who has ever bottomed will understand that what goes into your mouth that day is always something to think about before you put anything in the other end. It’s even more important for fisting, because you need to be a lot more relaxed, and (unless your top is particularly gifted) things are going to go a lot deeper.
Increasing fibre intake is important, I’m told. Weet-Bix, psyllium husk, a bran-based cereal - anything that clumps together. For 24 hours before, shun foods that continue in small bits inside you favor corn, nuts or seeds. But it’s different for everyone - one guy tells me it’s what he ate the previous day that matters, and that on the day of the event he had a foot-long Subway for lunch.
Thick liquids like yoghurt are good to keep energy levels up without complicating the douching process. Most have douched, and there’s a douche nozzle in the bathroom shower, in case anyone needs an extra rinse during the night.
Nobody I say to has attempted the salt-water way (where you beverage a litre of salt water to flush out your entire digestive system).
7. It’s basically a dick-free zone
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This post is written by Chris Dunbar, our Sexual Health Outreach Worker.
When it comes to activity in the bedroom, no one can tell you what you can and can’t do. Trying new things often makes it more exciting and fun, particularly if you are the adventurous type. The crucial thing is to build sure you do things safely.
So, lets take the plunge, and explore the less commonly talked about act of fisting.
Right, so where do we begin? Just like with fisting, let’s not just dive straight in. Let’s seize some time to equip . Let’s look at some of the history, knowledge, and risks associated, then we can lube ourselves up and learn some techniques and tips to give it a go.
What is Fisting?
So, as the name suggests, fisting is a sexual activity in which a hand is inserted into the rectum or vagina. Once the hand is inside, the fingers can be clenched into a fist or kept straight, this is down to personal liking or choice. Although commonly practised with a second person, fisting can be performed solo.
Other names may include: handballing, fist fucking, hoofing, fister, giving a Muppet, or the five-finger butt blast, to offer just a few.
The History
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Playing Handball: A Instruction to Fisting
The term “fisting”refers to the perform of inserting the entire hand into a partner’s vagina oranus. In the gay community, this is often called “handballing,” which Iconsider a more precise and less frightening term. When people hear the word“fist,” they often conceive something violent, as if you’re going to be punchingsomeone’s genitals. This is not the caseyou’re not going in there like Popeye,people. In reality, fisting can be an intense sexual exposure for bothpartners, one that requires a lot of certainty , communication, time and lube.
First of all, your goalwhen fisting a significant other should be to cause no injure, not just to minimizedamage. Like any other kind of anal or vaginal play, fisting should not causepain or serious physical trauma. Pain or harsh discomfort is a sign that yourbody is not ready or relaxed enough for this type of play. It’s extremelyimportant for both partners to talk to each other about this and to stopif the partner who is being penetrated feels any pain. Sometimes, even if youhave fisted or been fisted by a partner before, t
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Some of us get turned on by taking as much of a hand as far inside the arse as possible. Drill is the name of the game and – although you might never want to fist – almost everyone can accommodate at least a not many fingers. To get a fist in and out safely does require more effort, time and concentration on the part of both partners and recognition that the are risks (more of this later).
In this section the legal title ‘fister’ has been used for the person giving the fist, ‘fistee’ the person receiving.
While there are obvious benefits to fisting with an experienced spouse, learning with another novice can be just as safe and horny. It’s advisable to take some time to get to know each other, and to try and uncover each other’s fantasies. Whatever happens it is significant for both of you – but particularly the fistee – to sense relaxed and comfortable.
Foreplay should never be underestimated in helping develop a instinct of rapport, trust and humour. Codes or ‘stop/start rules’ are essential and should be agreed beforehand. ‘Stop’ from a fistee means stop immediately and ‘out’ means out, albeit very slowly and with extreme care. The crucial thing is to converse about what you wan